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The tumultuous story of two active duty gay combat soldiers fighting for love, happiness, and their country against all odds — before, during, and after Don't Ask Don't Tell. The decorated officers served in three wars and deployed to five continents, forging a lifelong friendship navigating the evolving perils of the policy together, hiding in plain sight.

The "compromise" was designed to loosen their shackles, but Don't Fall in Love draws back the curtain on how it made life so much worse — forcing brutal compromises and pitting their life's calling against happiness with the men they loved. It seemed to doom any serious relationship, but they were soldiers, so they fought.

Born on the eve of Stonewall, their lives tell the story of the liberation of our military and the entire LGBT equality movement, through their insightful eyes.